If you are married, do you view your marriage
as a covenant or a contract? Though these two words might sound similar, but they
are very different in nature .A contract
is a written agreement with a foundation of distrust that outlines the
conditions and consequences that will happen if it is broken.
On the opposite side of this spectrum is a
covenant, which is a verbal commitment that is based on trust. This promise is
unconditional and good for life. A
covenant is spoken before your Heavenly Father in love for your partner.“Marriage: Real love has no plan b.” (Fiercemarriage.com)
A contract is self-serving, and comes with
limited liability. It sets a time frame for certain conditions (deliverables)
to be met and accomplished. A contract can be broken with mutual consent, but a
covenant is unbreakable.
A
covenant is for the benefit of others, and comes with unlimited responsibility.
It has no expiration (cut-off) date. It
is a “til death do us part” promise that reflects on the nature of love.
“My Heavenly Father, make my heart love my
spouse when I feel like being mean instead showing that I cherish them. Help me
to do my part to make this covenant a union you are pleased with. Thank for the
unique blessing of the spouse you chose for me. In your name I pray, amen. [ii]
“A great marriage is made up of two people who consistently put their
marriage vows before their feelings.” (Ngna Otiende)
[i] This verse was quoted from a daughter-in-law (Ruth)
to her mother-in-law (Naomi) and not a wife to a husband. Read the book of Ruth
in the Bible.
[ii] Adapted from: The Love Dare Day by Day by Stephen and
Alex Kendrick, “Love Is a Covenant (Day
361)”
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